Relationship Tips for Working Couples

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All couples go through a myriad of peaks and valleys over the course of their love & relationships. It is absolutely normal for a couple to be experiencing an ultimate high one minute, only to find themselves feeling like they are digging their way out of a huge rut.

You must understand that you have not fallen into the great abyss; you are simply going through a rough patch and another highlight in your marriage relationship is just around the corner. By following this relationship advice, you will learn to improve your relationship and experience a happy married life.

Cut Off the Cell Phones

Many love relationship experts believe that the cell phone has created more issues for working couples than any other electronics device invented thus far. More and more people are becoming addicted to their cell phones because of social networking, games and even afterhours business calls.

This has created a big problem for working couples as they are losing their ability to spend some quality time together. Love relationship counselors suggest that couples should turn off their handheld devices once they get home from work.

Without the interruptions of texts, calls and emails, the couple's marriage relationship will not only improve but blossom. It is best for working couples to leave work at work and not bring work home with you.

Divide the Duties

Other than finances, the major problem that working couples face is getting the household chores completed. Oftentimes, many of the chores are left up to a single person who can create resentment as well as exhaustion. It is best to talk about the chores that need to be done daily, weekly and monthly.

Make a list of all of the things that need to be handled so that the house is clean and neat and you have meals to eat and clean clothes to wear. These chores should be divided equally so that one person doesn't have to try to do it all. Be sure to include chores that your kids are old enough to handle on the list.

One of the biggest complaints that working couples have is that they simply do not have the time to spend alone together. Of course, once the kids go to bed you have a few minutes to be alone however; most people are exhausted after working all day, dealing with homework and afterschool activities and doing everyday household chores.

Time for Two

Marriage advice counselors believe that it is essential for working couples to take a few hours each month to do something away from the kids. Although in today's economy money is tight, you can find some inexpensive ways to spend quality time together. This is simply relationship maintenance, according to some well-known relationship advice gurus.

You can pack a picnic lunch and go to your local park and that will cost you no more than it would if you were to eat lunch at home. Many couples enjoy walking on the beach, going for a bike ride or just strolling through the neighborhood holding hands and talking.

The place you go doesn't really matter. The only thing that matters is that you give each other your undivided attention. This will make your marriage relationship stronger, improve your relationship communication and help you stay happy.

Noah Brown is a freelance writer who writes extensively about marriage relationships and the inspirational videos and motivational quotes which provide useful relationship advice and relationship tips on love and relationships.

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Wives Encouraged to Leave, Choose to Stay!

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There are a growing number of wives whom God has instructed to remain in their marriages. And God's request comes in the midst of what all might agree as untenable challenges.

To many such a decision seems foolish. Requesting a wife to remain in marriage with a husband that demonstrates little to no regard for God, engages in pornography, the occult or has committed adultery seems like an unfair and unloving request-especially coming from God. Quickly, many reason that "God wants us to be happy." In the interest of happiness, well-meaning Christians encourage some of these wives to divorce. Admittedly, there are no easy answers. Nor is there one answer that fits all. But, let me also say that God sends such requests to those that have ears to hear it and understandably, not all have the maturity to receive such instruction.

Hosea did. Gomer was Hosea's wife. Her name means filled with sexual iniquity. She was a prostitute before marrying Hosea. Gomer committed adultery, but God instructed Hosea not to divorce his wife. Through Hosea's obedience, God redeemed her. Read their full story in the Book of Hosea.

God made a similar request of Jesus. Consider Philippians 2:6-8.

"Though he was God,he did not think of equality with God as something to cling to. Instead, he gave up his divine privilege she took the humble position of a slave and was born as a human being. When he appeared in human form,he humbled himself in obedience to God and died a criminal's death on a cross."

Jesus asked God, at least three times, whether or not there was some other way to redeem us. When God offered no other alternative, Jesus said,

"... nevertheless, not as I will, but as You (God) will." (Matthew 26:39)

The wives whom God has made the request to stay in their marriages are not your average women. They are strong, although for years their strength has been misappropriated. These women are not emotionally incapacitated or co-dependent as some may assume. They are mentally, emotionally and financially sufficient. They are fierce competitors. This simply may prove to be the fight of their lives! Like Jesus, they too have a will and acknowledge it. However, they have chosen God's will over their own.

The women I am writing about are not na?ve. They know let down and betrayal. They know financial loss and put-downs. They know humiliation and embarrassment, loneliness and desires unfulfilled. Still, they are answering God's request to keep their marriage vow.

It's safe to say that these women know pain. It's just that they are no longer afraid of it. They also know fear, but they are no longer governed by it! Instead, they are discovering the kind of love that drives out fear. I John 4:18 reads,

"There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love."

These women are discovering the kind of love that was in Christ. It is an unconditional love that works like this,

"But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us." (Romans 5:8)

"... that is, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, not imputing their trespasses to them, and has committed to us the word of reconciliation." (II Corinthians 5:19)

It is the kind of love that was in Christ when God reconciled the world to Himself. It's the same love that is now working in these wives to reconcile their husbands to God! God has accomplished His work through faithful men and women for centuries. Today is no different.

God has and continues to pour this kind of love into the wives of whom He has made the request to remain in marriage. He is divinely aiding these women to love their husbands despite the cost to themselves. And make no mistake, it is a cost, but one that God will richly reward. You see, at the end of the day these wives recognize this is a spiritual competition and they have been graced to compete with patience, looking to Jesus who is the author and finisher of their faith.

My hope is that each wife that receives such a request from God will find love, encouragement and support among the solidarity of wives that are also answering God's call. Kim Moore & Friends is committed to helping such women through prayer and discipleship.

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Planned Intimacy

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Failing to plan for intimacy too often means it is left till the end of a busy day where it can become, for some, just one more thing they have to do so they can get to sleep. Planned intimacy means that you and your partner are going to schedule in time for intimacy in your lives. This is not to be confused with scheduling sex. It does however create the opportunity and helps create the atmosphere that may greatly increase your chances of making love.

Clients will comment that planned intimacy does not sound romantic or spontaneous. I am not sure where the idea that intimacy and sex must be spontaneous comes from, perhaps from television, movies or romantic novels. But the reality is that without some forethought the frequency of intimacy and as a result sex are likely to decline as your relationship matures. Continuing to court and to plan for intimate times together after marriage just means that you continue feeding the fire of your passion rather than letting it fade and turn cold.

In order for planning for intimacy to work, sex cannot be the goal or even on the agenda. The goal of planned intimacy is to connect as a couple-to see and look at each other, to listen to each other, to cuddle and be close, and to spend time together. You can reminisce, talk about hopes and dreams, go for a walk, hold hands, or play a fun game. What you do does not matter as much as the attitude with which you do it. A minimum of once a week for a least an hour and daily time together for at least 15 minutes are good targets to aim for when scheduling your planned intimacy.

There are only two rules for planned intimacy:
1. Just the two of you.
2. Most important, turn off the distractions and tune into one another.

At times your planned intimacy time may result in love-making. This is much more likely to happen if neither of you is pushing for it to happen. If you feel a great deal of resistance to the idea of planned intimacy, it is likely that the two of you have already grown apart and you are possibly withholding affection and avoiding situations that could lead to sex. Knowing that planned intimacy does not obligate you to have sex, may make it possible for you to experiment with planned intimacy to discover if it will help the two of you rebuild your connection.

Susan Derry, B.Ed., M.S.Psy., R.P.C., C.P.C.
Professional Counselor & Life Coach

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Co-author of Intimate Sex: Manual for Lovemaking, a sex manual for couples

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Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy

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EFT is usually a short term (8-20 sessions), structured approach to couples therapy formulated by Drs. Sue Johnson and Les Greenberg. A substantial body of research outlining the effectiveness of EFT now exists. Research studies find that 70-75% of couples move from distress to recovery and approximately 90% show significant improvements.

The focus of Emotionally Focused Therapy is the quality of the emotional connection between two partners. The quality of connection is always good in the beginning of any relationship. In the first stage, what I call "Stage 1 - You Are the Answer," we start out intensely connected to and responsive to our partners. Biology, love hormones, idealization, sameness focus, and suppression of conflict are the five qualities that make a new relationship feel like BLISS.

But the problem for couples will develop by Stage 2 - "You Are the Problem, " because of several factors. The love hormones from Stage 1 produce a less potent magic. Our level of attentiveness tends to drop off. And, our desire to reveal our uniqueness (rather than just our sameness) produces differences between two partners... and conflict. The quality of the connection between partners can go from feeling safe to feeling pretty insecure.

Susan Johnson, one of the brilliant minds who developed Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples, says that "losing the connection with a loved one, jeopardizes our sense of security and we experience a primal feeling of panic. It sets off an alarm in the brain's amygdala, our fear center. In a state of distress, we are programmed to either fight or flee." This relationship theory has been confirmed by the latest neuroscience research.

Understanding the problem in terms of the "science of love" is only the start to navigating the bumpy terrain of couples conflict. Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy can provide couples with a map to get from problems to solutions. Emotionally Focused Therapy will give couples a nifty set of emotional tools to more skillfully manage their challenges.

In moments of disconnection, what two partners do next, in those moments of distess, will have a huge impact on the shape of our relationship. If two partners can learn to turn around and reconnect, the relationship can be stronger because both partners will begin to trust that the "we, " the connection, can be a secure base each partner needs in order to be their best.

If couples do not learn how to turn to each other and reconnect, they will start to engage in, what I call "dumb fights" that follow a clear, and circular pattern. Susan Johnson called these arguments "demon dialogues." John Gottman, the acclaimed marriage research expert, call these fights "sliding door moments."

Sliding door moments are the seemingly inconsequential everyday moments filled with the words we haphazardly throw back and forth at each other, that make or break the most important relationships in our lives, because these are the moments we say to our selves, "I trust" or "I don't trust him/her." Once these sliding moments occur and you determine that your partner cannot be trusted, the relationship will start to unravel until these attachment injuries can be repaired.

The focus of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy is understanding and navigating these moments differently. Conflict is danger but it is also an opportunity to understand your partner more deeply, and thus make the relationship safer.

Historically, other therapies have viewed these demon dialogues as power struggles. They've attempted to resolve couples' fights by teaching them problem-solving skills. Susan Johnson says," this is a little like offering Kleenex as the cure for viral pneumonia." Teaching problem solving skills ignores the attachment issues that underlie the circular pattern of "dumb fights." Rather than conflict or control, the real issue, from an EFT perspective, is emotional distance. And what's frustrating to people is not knowing how to bridge the emotional distance.

Susan Johnson says that when we fight with our partners, "we tend to follow the ball as it goes over the net, paying attention to the last barb lobbed at us-and not whether we even want to be in the game at all."

Emotionally Focused Therapy helps you stop reacting, to step back and recognize the "game." With that expanded awareness, Emotionally focused Therapy teaches couples how to reveal and respond to these moments differently. Emotionally Focused Therapy helps a couple regulate their conflict by tapping into softer, more primary feelings rather than using anger to communicate. Anger pushes a partner further away, softer feelings pull a partner closer for understanding.

Emotionally Focused Therapy helps couples learn to repair broken connections and attachment injuries. In the beginning, couples may not feel that they have a choice if your panic button has been pushed and your emotions are boiling over. But just being aware that it has been pushed can help calm you down. You can think to yourself, "What is happening here? I'm yelling. But inside, I'm feeling really small." Then you can tell your partner, "I got really scared there-I'm feeling hurt." Couples have more conscious choices about whether to move toward or away from connection. To attack or reveal longing and/or fears. To run or stay emotionally present.

Once couples can learn to make conscious choices toward connection, the relationship actually evolves to a whole new level of intimacy. I call this stage, Stage 3 - We Are the Problem. The significant shift for a couple at this stage is understanding that relationship distress at is not a partner problem but a connection problem. Sharing responsibility for the connection helps couples leave behind the old, me verses you, blame game.

Once couples can learn to maintain connection through conflict and put connection first in their lives, the relationship evolves to Stage 4 - We are the answer. This is the stage of relationship when we experience the five good things that come from a secure connection - increased energy, increased empowerment to act, increased self awareness and awareness of other, increased self worth, and increased appetite for more connection.

Rhonda Audia, LCSW, is an expert on relationships, emotional healing and recovery from divorce. She is the director of Tampa Family Conflict Center in Tampa, Florida. Tampa Family Conflict Center offers marriage and couples counseling, divorce therapy, and relationship education.

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How to Be Unloving to Your Wife

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Just as a wife needs to read what it feels like to be disrespectful to her husband, a man needs to read what it feels like to be unloving to his wife. So if you are a wife reading this, please don't email this article to your husband and demand he reads it. If you are a husband reading this, please take it as it was written, tongue-in-cheek. Sometimes you can see things more clearly by identifying what it looks to be unloving rather than loving.

These can be done nearly anywhere as your wife is sure to take offense at each and every one. Just be careful not to do all of them at the same time or you might overload her with feelings of resentment. Rather, spread them out over a period of time to make sure she knows just how much you don't love her.

Her home - Whenever possible, point out all of the things that are wrong in the house and how it never looks like she contributes to the care of it. This is especially effective when she has gone out of her way to make the house look nice and you ignore it with your silence instead of recognizing it. If she has done something that you don't like such as rearranging the furniture or painting a wall, take the time to rearrange it back or complain that the color is your least favorite. The more she prides herself on how her house looks, the more effective this tactic will be.
Her relationships - Since most women gain value from their relationships, criticize her friends regularly and demand she be friends only with the people you like. Throw in a couple of sarcastic remarks about her friends in front of her friends and watch the tension mount. If she seems to side with the friends, don't be compassionate instead demand her undying loyalty to you in front of her friends.
Her religion - Don't forget about the power in reminding your wife that she needs to submit to you because God says so. By mixing a dose of religious guilt along with your statements, most women become confused and frustrated because love and guilt don't mix well. That is your opportunity to strike the next blow just to make sure she knows who is boss.
Her family - Many wives are attached to their mothers and have a bond that is difficult to break so do your best to target her mother at every opportunity with cutting remarks. When you are done with her mother, attack her father especially if she was a "daddy's girl". Even if he is the nicest person, you can still find fault. Make sure there is a dose of truth mixed with plenty of exaggeration to alienate any allies she might have now or in the future.
Her work - This is one of the best categories as any way you go you can still win. For instance, if she makes less money than you, tell her that she is not pulling her own financial weight. This is best done to stay-at-home moms who don't earn any income, make sure you remind her at every turn just how much she has to depend on you for financial support. If she makes more money than you and you work, be as unsupportive of her job as possible so she knows just how frustrated you are that she is earning more. If she makes more money than you and you don't work, drop the mommy guilt card as often as possible by insisting that she spend more time at home and how much the kids miss her every day.
Her appearance - Most women take some pride in their appearance so if she gets some new make-up complain about the cost or if she buys a new dress tell her that it doesn't fit. This is a tactic that yields results quickly as the more subtle the remark, the more she internalizes your comments and plays them over and over in her head. She never really escapes obsessing over her appearance even when she doesn't look good, she'll just say that she doesn't care or doesn't have time. So one of the best ways to discourage her is to tell her that those few pounds she lost really don't make a difference in how she looks and she still shouldn't wear that dress. Take the opportunity when she gets a hair cut not to notice the difference, better yet ask her what the hairdresser did for all of that money.
Her hobbies - Just walk into any craft store and you will find a host of hobbies that most women love to do. If your wife is one of these women, tell her she is wasting her money on such enjoyment and her money would be better spent on something that you or the kids need. Adding the mommy guilt touch is especially effective when your wife is spending her time doing something she enjoys. After all, she had the children, she needs to raise them.
Her sexuality - The internet has wonderful pictures of perfect female bodies doing crazy sexual things that are great for comparing your wife and her performance. If you are bold enough, leave a screen up or show her one of the sights so that she can get a good idea of just what you want and need because it is all about you. If she has a period of disinterest in sex, don't justify her behavior by saying it's hormonal, instead demand that she perform for you sexually.
Her dreams - Every now and then remind her of a dream that she never fulfilled or one that she tried and failed. This is very powerful if you had to rescue her from whatever the situation was and by reminding her of that you are telling her just how dependent she is on you. There should be no promotion of independence as that is showing love.
Her moods - It is no secret that some women get moody a couple of days during the month so if your wife is in this category show no mercy. Remind her that no matter how she feels, she still needs to take care of you and all your needs. Never mind that you have been grumpy on occasion, her moodiness is no excuse not to do everything you expect her to do. You can also use her moods against her by saying that she has no need to cry and that crying is for babies.
Her decisions - No doubt she has made a few bad decisions in the time you have known her so keep a tally of all of her mistakes. You may need to write them down so you don't forget the next time you have an argument. Bring up all of her poor choices and then treat her like a child even talking or yelling at her as you would a child. If she protests, remind her that she acts like more like a child then an adult.
Her morality - Last by not least, if your wife has done anything immoral such as drunkenness, adultery, slept with someone before you, pornography, or drug use just to name a few, remind her of her previous behavior and suggest that she return to it whenever things get too tough. Don't let your wife get away with the idea that people can change, remind her that she will never change and she will always be the ___ you once knew.

By mastering all of the above suggestions, your marriage will be well on its way to join half of all marriages that end in divorce. So now that you know what your wife needs to feel unloved, go and conquer.

Chris Hammond is a Registered Mental Health Counselor Intern at LifeWorks Group w/ over 15 years of experience as a counselor, mentor & teacher for children, teenagers & adults.

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Fix A Marriage By Making It More Exciting

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A wedding lasts for a day whereas a marriage on the other hand is meant to last forever. Couple enters into a marriage with the hope and expectation that it will all be bliss and paradise that lasts for eternity. This may be the case at the start of the marriage where it's all honeymoon and you and your partner rest in seventh heaven. A time probably comes when you both tumbling down to earth at the realization that your marriage is not what you thought it would be. Your partner turns out to be different from the person you married. Boredom starts to creep in and marriage becomes routine rather than exciting. You and your partner may be leading an unhappy and discontented married life. A few pointers can be taken to fix a marriage and make it more exciting.

Spontaneity
Be spontaneous. Routine may be part and parcel of your life. Rigid plans may be important to achieving your day's goals. However, a little spontaneity would be helpful for your relationship. Chase the kids to bed for the night and go out for a dance or dinner. Do not deprive yourselves of all the fun and spontaneity today for the sake of saving up for a secure future. In your budgeting, also budget for cash to spend on each other. This might have a slight pinch on your pockets, but will have a great positive impact in helping you fix a marriage.

Do Things For Each Other
Remember to also wane away the routine and boredom. Do your partner small favors that will surprise and excite him/her. You could buy him/her small gifts or give him/her a homemade gift. For the men, a homemade meal made by you could also be a great surprise for your wife/girlfriend.

Talk
In technology-enabled (or disabled) age, it is normal to find that each partner has their own iPod, iPad, phone, laptop, TV and the list goes on. Technology has a way of getting in the way of an old-fashioned conversation between partners. Sometimes, it is used as an excuse not to communicate. Once in a while, turn off the technology and sit down to have a nice traditional discussion with your partner. You will be amazed at how much you have to talk about.

Pursue A Project
At any one time, have a project that you are pursuing jointly. You could save up for a house, a car or a holiday. Your projects don't have to be financial related. Your project could be to write a book together, to learn to play an instrument together or even to volunteer at a home for the needy.
Your effort in keeping the romance alive long after your wedding date will fix a marriage and ensure that you enjoy the romantic love and the joy of living as a happy couple.

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The World Still Needs Kings

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In many, perhaps most cases, men do not realize how greatly they are needed. This world still needs kings.

Men, your wives and children, your communities and your churches need men of passionate conviction and sure-footed purpose. We need leaders who exhibit godly character and demonstrate fearless leadership. We are hungry for those who would be our guardians and moral gatekeepers.

Too often men fail to soberly recognize and embrace the weight of responsibility, opportunity and privilege that falls on them alone, the gift of genuine masculinity that has the potential to carry with it a seal, a crest, a banner of honor, a crown. This culture, this society, this dark place desperately needs men of unwavering moral conviction, men prepared to set the example of spiritual excellence, of faithfulness, of passionate truth and unbridled courage.

You have been lied to. You have been told that you don't matter anymore. You have come to believe that your gifts and strengths are not needed. This depraved culture has lulled you into complacency. Over time, some of you have become content to do a day's labor and bring home a paycheck, then come home at day's end to sink into your recliner and flip on the television. Your spiritual lives have become religious acts of lukewarm obligation, grounded in accommodation, full of empty words and cold and lifeless prayers. And what excitement you glean might be found primarily in a movie theater, on the golf course, or in a nightclub. All the while, all around you we as people are literally starving for a man with a godly fire in his eyes. We are deprived of virtuous leadership, of your passionate force for good. We are desperate to hear words charged with power and wisdom and unadulterated truth.

Men, your wives need to feel safe and loved and appreciated. Your women spend time tending to their skin and hair and make-up and clothes so that you might remind them that they are special; that you see who they are and what they have to offer. They long to share their dreams with you, to lie in your arms and hear your words of authentic affirmation and affection and encouragement. They want to know you understand and will strive to meet their heartfelt needs. They may enjoy having sex, but they want to be seduced, they want to be made love to.

Men, your children need a positive role model. They long for your blessing on their lives. You have the raw ability to instill in them a confidence and conviction that no one else's influence can match. You have the power to speak life into their lives, to change the world through the legacy you have the power to birth in their waiting hearts.

Men, the world still needs kings. We need men of strong moral stature, warriors at the ready, eager and willing to sacrifice all to deter and defend any and all who would come against their kingdom. We need men who are watchful, who are aware and intent on shoring up weaknesses, men who lead by example, and bolster the confidence and sense of safety and security of all those who live within the bounds of their kingdom.

Such a man is worth following. Such a man will garner the loyalty and conviction that makes his kingdom strong and prosperous and others rightfully envious.

I am married to such a man. I married a king. And I know what that makes me.

Men: You may not be noble by birth, but you were made to live a noble life.

Be steadfast, immoveable, ever abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your toil is not in vain in the Lord. I Corinthians 15:58

Cindy Burrell

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Cindy Burrell, a writer, wife, mother and a survivor of emotional abuse is here to tell you that there is hope...

After twenty years in an abusive relationship Cindy was left feeling lost, lonely and exhausted. She had learned to compromise her happiness in an unsuccessful attempt to stave off the onslaught of abuse. Her story is one of neglect, fear, lies, and addictions. Finally forced to leave their home with her four children, they escaped the emotional prison in which they had all lived. Although scars remain, Cindy and her children have found healing and restoration.

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